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Sean Derning: Sportsmanship

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— The game that didn't matter. Or did it?

On Tuesday night, I had to umpire a Steamboat Springs men's softball league game. I went into the game like any other for the past 20 seasons; calling balls, strikes and outs. But what happened that evening was something I hadn't experienced in four decades of playing, spectating or officiating organized team sports.

It was a beautiful evening for softball with partly cloudy skies to knock down the heat and glare. When I arrived at the field, the red team had only seven players. Local league rules state a team has to have eight players to start, or they forfeit the game. So when game time arrived and the red team couldn't field a team, I called a forfeit, which irritated the manager/pitcher of the red team. As they say, rules are rules.

As both teams were still entitled to the field, I asked if they wanted to split up the teams and scrimmage. Both agreed, and we put together a game. Because I keep an extra glove in my bag, I asked the blue team if I could join them. The manager said, "Sure, why not? The game doesn't matter anyway."

When it came my turn to bat, the manager/pitcher for the red team, still irked that his team had to forfeit, called to me from the pitcher's mound and said, "You're the umpire. I'm not pitching to you. Take a walk." My teammates erupted.

"What? Why not? The game doesn't matter! Pitch to him!" Others threw in their own colorful opinions. So I took the intentional walk.

I batted three times that game and was the only player intentionally walked each time by the red manager/pitcher, never getting a chance to swing the bat. When players asked me why I was being walked, I replied, "Because I'm an umpire." All shook their heads in disappointment.

Until then, I'd never experienced such blatant, in-your-face discrimination. Certainly sports officials take heat on close calls. It's part of the job. But in this case, I wasn't being judged by color, creed, social status or ability to play. I was being judged by another white male because of my officiating job, which had no influence on the pick-up game we were playing. What overshadowed and soured the outcome of the game was the issue of one individual's decision to repeatedly deny his opponent the opportunity to compete.

After the game, players from both teams came up to say they were sorry. That helped to ease the hurt, but it caused me to think: Have we as a society become so disconnected from sportsmanship that individuals have come to interpret their own selfish behavior as acceptable competitive behavior? If so, then where is the sport in that?

Sean Derning

Steamboat Springs

Comments

hmerken (Howard Merken) says...

Sportsmanship these days is terrible. Here are some examples:

1) A co-worker ten years ago west to her son's high school basketball game. The spectators were so bad that the parents were forced to put tape on their own mouths before the game started. This had become game policy.

2) Fans get involved in pro sports. Remember the fan who caught a baseball at a pro game that the outfielder would have caught? Or the fans throwing beer bottles at football refererees?

3) I saw a coach today bring a youngster, maybe ten or eleven years old, to tears today at a ball game near the alpine slide. The player had struck out, the third out of the inning, with a teammate on third base. The coach called the player behind the dugout as the teams changed sides, so I swung my bike over to see and maybe hear the conversation. The coach looked like he was ready to hit the player, then started talking, but I couldn't hear the conversation. The player tried to fight back the tears, then rubbed his eyes. I got so mad that I was ready to confront the coach, but resisted the temptation. Had he hit the boy, I would have intervened. This prompted a letter to the editor which I submitted an hour ago.

4) Little League coaches have to consider malpractice insurance, as irate parents sue when their kids don't get the play as the parents wish.

5) While in junior and senior high school, I tried sports, but really spent most of my senior varsity football game time in the marching band. Every game, spectators would boo the referees when they came out at the beginning of the game. One I knew to be a gym teacher that the fans should have recognized. Why boo them? They game hadn't even started.

Our whole culture is getting way too aggressive, and sportsmanship suffers.

July 25, 2009 at 8:16 p.m. ( | suggest removal )

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